'I'm married but have always been bi-curious and now fancy a guy from my gym'
Read Deidre's personal replies to today's problemsI HAVE been bi-curious since my teens but I never acted on these feelings before now.
Since I’ve joined a gym to get fit I have fallen for a guy who always goes there at the same time as me.We have kissed and pleasured one another in the changing room when there was no one around. It was a revelation to me as I am a married man of 36 with two small daughters.He’s about my age and I guessed he was gay as soon as we met. I could tell by the way he looked at me somehow.Now he says we should stop what we’ve been doing as he is becoming emotionally involved with me.
Most of us in committed relationships meet other people we desire at some point and have to make a choice. If you realise your feelings really are too strong to resist, even at the risk of breaking up your family, my e-leaflet on Bisexual Issues will help you think this through.
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