With a new home office, the cats organise their management roles.
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Last night, he came home with dinner for us both. While he freshened up, I prepared the table and a drink for him. Reflecting on our journey together, I realise that I've often taken on the role of the provider and caretaker. When we first began dating, I never let him pay for anything; I did it sincerely and was happy to do it because that's just the way I am. When he started working, he did the same for me but he set limits. For me, I would spend on him even if I was left with only one sen. But he doesn't think nor do the same for me.
A few years ago, when he almost got sacked from his job, I was the first person he called; I reasoned with him and persuaded him. And now, when I haven't got a secure job yet, I'm getting mocked. For the sake of harmony, it is generally best if you divide up such tasks evenly. Alternatively, if you can afford it, you outsource those jobs and share the cost.
This adds up to serious disrespect that will damage your relationship long-term. Also, neither of you are digging in and figuring out your expectations or what you are arguing about, so it happens repeatedly.
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