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: A month ago, I received some troubling news from my doctor. She said I have a rare bone marrow disorder and have five years at the most to live. What was troubling was that my wife of 35 years started to withdraw from me as if she is already readying herself for a life without me. I tried to tell her how I feel, but she turns it around saying it’s just me.First and foremost, I am deeply sorry. News of this nature is never expected nor is it easy to swallow.
What you feel is your wife withdrawing from you might instead be her own grief and fear around your diagnosis manifesting. You’re both now facing a future you weren’t anticipating, but neither of you have to confront it alone. Seeing a couples counselor or a leader in your local church might prove helpful to you and your wife in accepting and moving forward in this new reality. The time you have together is finite and precious; do lean on and love one another.
He may be a good man who loves his daughter, but he is an enabler. “Daughter Difficulty” should find a nice man who isn’t still legally married and whose grown-up kids don’t live with him.It seems to be a thing these days for adult kids to either return home or never leave it in the first place. Years down the line, the parent will still be caring for them instead of the other way around. When I turned 18, I couldn’t wait to get out on my own, even though my life was good growing up.
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