Advice | Carolyn Hax: Don’t go; say it’s too expensive. Or get excited about the wedding and/or Hawaii, and go.
We live near this couple and are friendly with them. The only sign they might realize how they are imposing on the people closest to them is that they are constantly attempting to justify their choice as doing us all a favor. I just keep thinking of all the other ways I’d rather be spending this money . Any suggestions to help me get over my resentment, besides deep breaths?Don’t go; say it’s too expensive. Or get excited about the wedding and/or Hawaii, and go. They’re your only good choices.
Does it matter who is at fault if the relationship is just not good for one or both of us? What should I say when I do have the opportunity to talk to her about it?Simplistically speaking, your willingness to see yourself as toxic means you aren’t toxic, and if she’s able to calm down and talk to you about what upset her, then she’s not toxic, either.Toxic people also aren’t the only reason friendships fail.
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